My niece is going to be in four weddings this spring and summer. She’s 19 and is quite excited about it, but that’s a lot of dress fittings, bachelorette parties, and bridal showers. Maybe I’m getting old, who knows. I’m sure she’ll have a great time standing up for her friends, but it got me to thinking about how much goes into a wedding and what a big business it is (like the craft industry).
According to the Association for Wedding Professionals International, the wedding industry is a $50 billion industry. And the average cost for a wedding in the US is around $20,000.
That’s a lot of money. It takes a great deal of time and energy to put together that special day. And it can be stressful on the best of couples. Spending that much money and taking on that much stress seems like the wrong way to start out a marriage. In theory, anyway. But as we all know, the wedding is an important step, and who doesn’t want their wedding to go smoothly and be a joyous, beautiful day?
So one of the tips I told my niece to tell her friends is to go with simple, inexpensive touches that are beautiful but not extravagant and focus that savings where the difference is more noticeable. Spend more money on the photographer over decorations and favors. The photos will be around a long time. If they stink, you’ll have those “memories” forever. But will it really matter in twenty years if you went with the twice as expensive party favors or thank you cards? It’s more important to get those thank you cards sent out rather than worry over the paper they’re mailed on).
If you’re planning to do a lot of the wedding prep and details yourself (such as creating your own wedding decorations, invitations, favors, and more), go with simple and beautiful rather than over the top and showy. Something doesn’t have to be complicated to be beautiful.
Here are some links to pages in the Craft Solutions directory for web sites and project ideas to help get anyone started with how to create beautiful items for your wedding and save a little time and money on those do-it-yourself wedding projects:
Wedding Craft Ideas - links to individual project ideas
Wedding Craft Web Sites - links to sites that offer all sorts of creative ideas
Helpful links by topic:
I hope this gives you some great ideas and helps you reduce cost and stress. Have a great wedding!!